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I have a very similar style to what you describe in the article when approaching romantic interests.
Welcome back to The Attraction Doctor Have you ever had a time when you just couldn't connect with someone?
Maybe you just couldn't "click" with someone attractive you were trying to talk to in a coffee shop or bookstore. Or maybe, it was a relationship partner, with whom you couldn't quite see eye-to-eye.
Overall, you can't go wrong with being Genuine (real), Empathetic (understanding), and Warm (accepting).
Whatever the case, it is common to have problems connecting with others from time to time. Definition: a relation marked by harmony, conformity, accord, or affinity. No doubt if you've read a book on dating, relating, or pick-up, then you've probably seen that word.
These failed connections weaken the relationships you have and lessen the possibility of getting new partners that you don't yet have. Usually, it is followed by some description about making eye contact, nodding your head, copying a partner's body movements (mirroring), and smiling.
So, the question I would pose to you, if your opinion is close to what I tried to describe above is similar, is: how do you know when to make rapport, and when to break it?
Indeed building rapport creates feelings of bonding (attachment, comfort, etc.) while breaking rapport creates feelings of attraction (passion, lust, etc.).
This establishes freedom in the relationship.3) Warmth - Finally, this means to be accepting and liking of others.