You wouldn’t want him judging you based on your ex-boyfriend, would you? That usually means he’s not going to be in any rush to have it happen again.
But times are changing, and it’s just as important for men to work through issues with thoughtful analysis and introspection.Many people, men and women, assume that when someone is divorced they made a lousy spouse. Just because a man is divorced doesn’t mean he’s a bad man.As a double divorcee, I can tell you that yes, there were times I made a lousy spouse, but there were times I was the perfect wife! My mother always says, “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure,” or, more delicately, just because he wasn’t right for one woman, doesn’t mean he isn’t perfect for you!One way of doing this is to seek out books that will help to mend their broken hearts and provide future action steps.“Though men are less apt than women to read books, men are more inclined to read than to seek counseling,” notes Davis.D., is the first book to take the best practices model of the business world and apply it to marriage.