You would expect that the ensuing tip would therefore be high, but the more thanks they gave, the lower the tip was. Because they are attempting to compensate you on the bad tip they’re about to give with a “verbal tip” instead.They expect you to feel gracious in the verbal tip instead of actual money.
Their system has flaws like any other so it’s worth having an open dialogue that helps men make the right decision on which style of game to invest time in. A lot of guys think they are running direct game by asking where a girl got her cool shoes from, for example, but that’s clearly indirect. Her expression of thanks indicates that you have given her something she greatly values (validation) without receiving anything in return.Now before direct guys start frothing over their keyboards, I must state that I don’t intend to start an indirect vs direct war.Choosing a style of game is an that a smart student of the game will research on his own.I will say something like, “I noticed you have a sad walk” or “I noticed you have a unique face,” almost negging her.Running after a girl is a valid move to increase your target pool, but doing it validation boost.That said, I have determined that a primarily direct model is not for me. If I open direct and eventually fail to get a number (maybe she has a boyfriend or is simply not interested in me), a common way for her to end the interaction is to say “Thank you for the compliment.” Some even will add, “You made my day.” That’s beautiful, isn’t it? In effect she is thanking you for putting her on the pedestal and valuing her pussy.