It is sort of a trick which you should not fall for. You have to make sure what she wants and try to be the one she wants.This remains a question even to Japanese men, but honestly, I can’t explain why we do so. We have been learning to say NO once or a few times. NOTE: This is just based on my experience and it does not mean it works to all of Japanese girls. “KABE” means wall and “DON” means the sound when somebody pushes something out or hit something.You may know from your experience but we also kiss lasciviously, furtively, secretly, gently, shyly and exuberantly.If your girl refuses once after your attempt to kiss, it is just actually part of her tactics but honestly she wants you to keep going.
For example, while you are driving, try to show your interest toward her, make sure to grab her hand or to touch her on the shoulder gently.
Christians shouldn’t adopt a worldly or self-centered perspective of dating that can equate to recreational dating or that perpetuate a state of immaturity and irresponsibility that is impacting many people [and not just “the young”].
I’m personally a fan of dating because we really need to take time to build healthy friendships to even consider the possibility of dating and beyond.
It is a good chance for you to kiss your Japanese girlfriend.
When you are driving a car, then the traffic light turns red, that’s your cue to kiss her.
If we do not, at least try to refuse, guys might think we are easy. If you are dating a Japanese girl and talking near the wall, you will need to push her GENTLY against the wall. It is also good to stop kissing for a few seconds in front of her face and look into her eyes and mouth, smile to her and finally you will gently give her a kiss.