Because, let’s face it, the odds are not in our favor, ladies.As we get older the man-to-woman ratio moves more and more lopsided.It’s too generic, common and, frankly says nothing about you that’s interesting.Instead, be more specific and paint a picture for him.
If you make it sound like you can take it or leave it, they are likely to help you leave it. “I love spending time with my friends, volunteering and reading novels.” When a man reads this his eyes glaze over and he moves on to the next profile.As a Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40, I’ve seen (and done) it all when it comes to online dating.I’ve seen how rewriting a profile, making it more positive, more aspirational, and less demanding can help the right guys find their way to your inbox. My husband and I met and married when I was 47 and I’m now spending the happiest years of my life. Bobbi invites you to join her Grownup Girls’ Night Out!” Spend your initial time letting him know how you relax and enjoy yourself and how being with you will add positively to both of your lives.You can roll out the “heavy” information as you get to know each other.We’re expecting an even bigger spike during winter’s cuffing season.