Basically, the reason is because they cater to women too much. The good news is that there is a way to be nice to women yet simultaneous build the necessary attraction.
Like I said, being too nice will not get you where you want to be with women.
Alas, most men believe looks, money, and social status are the only ways to attract the women they desire. That’s because they don’t recognize the underlying structure of how sexual tension is sparked and magnified.
Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you … Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull.
To get a sense of where I’m going with all this, think, for example, of your favorite junk food.
As soon as we made eye contact I did not hesitate to pull out my headphones and say, “Hi. I asked her if her legs were hard as diamond, and elicited a giggle. It can be as extreme as yelling at a girl, telling her she’s a slut with daddy issues (playful teasing, not serious), to tickling her and telling her she’s too ticklish to be your girlfriend. If she’s sassy she might say, “Fine, whatever.” I prefer option one. As you’re scanning through the options you might give her a choice of say Titanic, or The Matrix.
“Yeah that’s a side effect of dancing.” She said.“I want to learn salsa. ” I asked.“No, I haven’t tried it yet.”“Well, we should be salsa partners. When you’re on a date you could look in a pet store window and say “Which puppy is your favourite? When she says “Titanic,” you look at her without blinking, point to the door and say, “Get out.” Again, a smart girl will laugh, and punch your chest, or roll her eyes and say, “Whatever.”The man who is totally agreeable, who never teases, who never pushes, is booooooring. The easiest way to elicit emotions is to create a little bit of harmless drama. Have fun with it.***I was interviewed on CKNW about my job as a pickup artist.
Mastering the Tension Loop gives you the kind of power over women that, at first, might scare you.