Texts like suggesting pizza and football for a Monday night date or randomly sending “I love you” go a long way too.Long-term relationships can get mundane so you’ve constantly got to be doing little things to keep the sparks alive and the butterflies flying!This how-to handbook will coach you on the subtle art of sending short and sweet texts, with slight innuendos, to have your crush cruising for more.In this excerpt, authors Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz write about why sexting while in a relationship can make you fall in love all over again.If you are reading this chapter it means that you have successfully passed through the early stages of flirtexting and into a fabulous committed relationship. Now, just because you have entered into the land of “we” does not mean that you can call up your cell phone provider and cancel your unlimited texting plan.Flirtexting is still fantastically important in an existing relationship — only now you’re able to take it one step further.
It’s an excellent way to remain close, especially if there’s a time difference.
Sending a random, thoughtful flirtext is a great way to show him how much you care.
Randomly text, “I love you” or “I’m crazy about you.” It’s simple, it’s quick, and it will make him smile.
(Um, did we mention this is a great form of safe sex? Text what you want to do to him when you see him next or what you are dying for him to do to you.
) Texting helps make long distance more bearable by having the ability to be in constant contact. Talk about how your salad came with a really big cucumber and you thought of him. Be a little selfish when you dirty text and say things that will turn you on in the meantime.
Send a recent sports fact about his favorite player like, “Ole Chipper just hit his 400th home run last night, eh?