While it may or may not be rational, you need to make sure she knows your word is bond and can rely on you.
Many guys (or rather the friends of many guys) may say this is the biggest “trap” to watch out for.
We could go on some rides, take pictures of the animals to show Katy later, eat a lot, and play some games.
Maybe she and the father have an amicable relationship and co-parent and she will never be looking for another father.
It could be that she just likes spending time with you and will see where it will goes.
You may not be dating or father material, but she may not want either of those things at the moment. You just have to approach it in a different manner.
For many of my readers who are in their 30s or 40s, this idea can actually be more attractive than the thought of starting from scratch, going through pregnancies, diapers, screaming, and sleepless nights.
To help you make the fewest blunders possible, let me give you a few tips: She has someone who depends solely on her. And just like Sam Jackson says in “Pulp Fiction,” “Be cool! Believe me, she’s probably been looking forward to this date all week and has done everything she could to set herself up for success, but the best laid plans of mice and men.