If you’re serious about finding your one, avoid these at all costs.
If you've fought the battle of sexual purity for any length of time, you know that it is far more complex than simply abstaining from having sex.
Will you yield this aspect of life to the lordship of Christ?
Lie #3 – Sexual purity is about whether or not you have sex. I've heard from scores of strong Christian women who have indulged in "mommy porn," viewing it as nothing more than a guilty little pleasure.
Before marriage, their sexuality should lie dormant.
By contrast, Jesus was called the "Truth." Throughout the Gospels, He began His teaching with this phrase: "I tell you the truth." In my work in the area of sexuality, I see that Christians are very confused.I've read the trilogy and am quite astounded that a Christian can read this material without great conviction.The same can be said of young men who regularly view pornography.Exposing yourself to porn, erotica, sexual chat rooms and the like is as though you're feeding your mind and heart spiritual poison. What happens when you have sexual thoughts and desires? Typically, it will venture into one of two unhealthy directions: 1) Nurturing the desire or 2) Nurturing shame and condemnation. First Corinthians is perhaps the most practical teaching on temptation: "No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind.What you look at will be very difficult to get out of your mind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear.Sexual purity may be expressed by what you do with your body, but it is ultimately rooted in your mind, your heart and your soul.