“It’s about not having the control over each other,” she says.
Yet she is concerned that her husband still dates the same two women whereas she stays active “going through phases” between women and men alike.
May I suggest that the DWM who approach those of us who are Dating While Single (DWS), try something as simple as honesty?
In my research on the topic, having all parties participate in a truthful courtship seems to go a long way. Here are some guidelines from conversations with those for whom it has.1.
I am one who believes monogamy can be fulfilling and successful.
I also believe we all deserve to feel we have the power of making a choice.
“If I’m reading this guy won’t be able to handle it, or girl won’t be able to, there’s an insecurity there.Decide if a DWM lifestyle is appropriate for you and your partner, or just you./span Rakhem Seku and his wife Hakashamut Kenya K Stevens are the founders of Juju Mama, LLC, a progressive love movement with workshops and a support network for progressive relating.Seku says, “Marriage is a great club to belong to say ‘I’m married’ and flash the ring.” He says he meets many men whose “intention is to be exclusive, but it’s not working for them.“I typically am not incorrect with what I see when it comes to the desire to expand, and the dynamics of relationships to include other people.In situations where people who are monogamous say ‘O.k., we’ll be able to work it out’ and their partner alludes to ‘I know what you’re saying, but I’m going to start seeing other people anyway,’ they typically do not succeed.”For those who present with a willingness to try open relating, their reasons vary but may often include incompatible sex drives.This DWM label fits quite a few—some of whom I have known for years.